LEAVE YOUR PAST BEHIND.
I'm actually feeling happy right now and I don't think I'm in the right mood to write this blog but I wanted to write this blog without being highly invested on my emotions.
They say that you should never forget where you came from which is true but this blog is about leaving the past that broke you to pieces and not the one that helped you build yourself up. Yes they say that what doesn't kill you make you stronger that you should hold on to it no matter what. Well that's just full of bullcrap. I ain't saying this because I'm bitter coz I got hurt, that's not it. I want to point out the truth and that is to never run back to what broke you.
You'll keep telling yourself that if you let go now then you'll be left wondering your whole life what if "I never let go" well buddy it's a two way process we all get to be assholes in our life "sometimes" but if you fought for it to stay alive and tried to fix things and make it whole again but then you still feel empty inside? well it's time to stop and look at what you're missing out, you might think that there is no other way but to hold on, well you're wrong you have to let go of the things that are drowning you down because not only you're hurting yourself but all the more the people around you, people who cares a whole a lot about you.
Now is it ok to care about your past? of course! you never actually stop caring for anyone or someone you just learn to live your life without them being close to you but that doesn't mean you don't care about them but is it ok to keep in touch with them? They say you only forgive the people that hurt you when you have accepted what they've done to you that hurt you so bad, well that is true. You should indeed forgive them but that doesn't mean you always have to make yourself available for them because you'll just end up being hopeful that maybe someday things will turn out just fine, well this might sound a bit cliche but if it is bound to happen it will happen so don't run back to what broke you, burn the bridges down because if that person still cares he/she will build a bridge back to you or swim across for you but don't you dare cross a river for a person who won't even cross a puddle for you.
Remember,no matter how much you think going back will make you whole again, no matter how hard it is and the courage it takes, do not look back on your past that gave you too much pain to bare, you can't re-write the ending. Start giving yourself the love you deserve.
They say that you should never forget where you came from which is true but this blog is about leaving the past that broke you to pieces and not the one that helped you build yourself up. Yes they say that what doesn't kill you make you stronger that you should hold on to it no matter what. Well that's just full of bullcrap. I ain't saying this because I'm bitter coz I got hurt, that's not it. I want to point out the truth and that is to never run back to what broke you.
You'll keep telling yourself that if you let go now then you'll be left wondering your whole life what if "I never let go" well buddy it's a two way process we all get to be assholes in our life "sometimes" but if you fought for it to stay alive and tried to fix things and make it whole again but then you still feel empty inside? well it's time to stop and look at what you're missing out, you might think that there is no other way but to hold on, well you're wrong you have to let go of the things that are drowning you down because not only you're hurting yourself but all the more the people around you, people who cares a whole a lot about you.
Now is it ok to care about your past? of course! you never actually stop caring for anyone or someone you just learn to live your life without them being close to you but that doesn't mean you don't care about them but is it ok to keep in touch with them? They say you only forgive the people that hurt you when you have accepted what they've done to you that hurt you so bad, well that is true. You should indeed forgive them but that doesn't mean you always have to make yourself available for them because you'll just end up being hopeful that maybe someday things will turn out just fine, well this might sound a bit cliche but if it is bound to happen it will happen so don't run back to what broke you, burn the bridges down because if that person still cares he/she will build a bridge back to you or swim across for you but don't you dare cross a river for a person who won't even cross a puddle for you.
Remember,no matter how much you think going back will make you whole again, no matter how hard it is and the courage it takes, do not look back on your past that gave you too much pain to bare, you can't re-write the ending. Start giving yourself the love you deserve.
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